When Good Business Decisions Make Life Worse

Frances Lythgoe • January 5, 2026

If you wanted a better life, you certainly wouldn’t choose something that would make you less happy. Yet surprisingly, many people do, and without even knowing it.


Multiple studies show that people who travel longer distances to work are less happy than those with shorter journeys. The irony is clear. Many accepted those roles because the higher salary promised a better life. In practice however, this decision undermined the very outcome they hoped to achieve.


Many business owners can fall into this same trap. Decisions look smart on paper, but over time they drain energy, limit progress, and weaken financial stability. The trade offs are hidden, and the cost becomes visible only when the strain has already set in.


When decisions seem helpful but hold you back


Business owners often choose paths that appear financially responsible but can move them further from the goals they truly care about. Examples include:


  • Taking on every client because it feels wrong to turn down work, only to end up tired and with no time for better opportunities.

  • Using low cost tools that create more manual work and slow you down.

  • Discounting fees to win customers, only to end up with pressure on margins and cash flow.

  • Delaying a key hire, believing it saves money, when the strain leads to mistakes and missed opportunities.


Every decision feels right in the moment. Each one carries a hidden cost.


Look beyond the surface number


Good financial choices rely on understanding the full impact, not the headline figure. Use three lenses for every major decision.


1. Time


Does this choice protect your time for strategy, quality, and growth, or does it take time away? Time is a cost even if it does not show in the accounts.


2. Energy


Does it create clarity or confusion? Your performance as a business owner depends heavily on energy, focus, and mental space.


3. Financial strength beyond turnover


Does the choice strengthen margins, cash flow, and resilience, or does it only look attractive in isolation?


When you apply these three views, apparent wins often reveal themselves as losses.


How you can avoid hidden trade offs


Start by naming the outcome


Better margins, calmer operations, more time for important work, less admin. Once this is clear, the right decision becomes more obvious.


Value your time properly


One of your most valuable assets is your time. When you give it a value, you stop doing work or tasks that do not make sense financially.


Measure decisions by how they improve your working life, not just the numbers


If turnover goes up but stress goes up too, the choice has not helped the business.


Simplify


Businesses can often make tools and processes more complicated than they need to be. Pick systems that are simple to use and that do not end up costing you more time than they save.


How we can help


If you take one idea away from this, let it be this: a business decision is only a good one if it moves you towards the life you want, not away from it.


At Navigate, we do more than keep track of numbers, we help you build the business and lifestyle you want. To work with us, call our team on 01709 589 439 or
book a discovery call with Frances. We are always happy to help.